Easy Sexy Game for Couples to Play
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61 Sex Games That'll Spice Up Any Relationship
As it turns out, puzzles can totally be a sexcessory.
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If you thought your days of playing cards and board games were over, think again. They might not be as rated-G as the games you played when you were a little kid, but trust us when we say sex games for couples are way more fun. And if you're thinking, "Why would my partner and I spend time playing a sex game when we can just… have sex?" Well, babes, the answer is simple: Foreplay 👏🏼.
Playing sex games can be an extremely effective way of getting turned on before getting it on. Some companies design card and board games specifically for the purpose of foreplay, including questions or tasks that require players to do or confess something naughty. Other sex games aren't actually sex games, but rather, adult spins on the classic games you already know and love. (Think: Pictionary, Twister, and Jenga with "strip" or naughty elements.)
Another huge benefit to playing sex games (as if you needed another one)? They make great date night activities. When you don't feel like going out or spending a ton, staying home with your fave takeout and a sexy game can be just as exciting and fun. Plus, unlike real games, there aren't really any winners or losers in the traditional sense since everyone does a lil winning, if you know what I mean. And you get to bring out your competitive side in a good way, laugh your ass off with your partner, and most likely have some really hot sex, all at the same time. Date night at the movies could never!
Of course, everyone has a different idea of what's fun. Every relationship is different and there is no one-size-fits-all sex game that'll turn everyone on. That's why we made sure to jam-pack this list with tons of options, so that whether you're a trivia fiend or a puzzle pro, you'll find something for you. So without further ado, feast your eyes on 61 sex games for couples. Try these out and thank us later.
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Strip Twister
Some of the hottest sex games are simply fun twists on the classics, and one of the best is obviously Twister. The game is pretty much foreplay all on its own, so add in an extra sexy element and you have yourself a bonafide sex game. Each time someone "loses," they have to take off an article of clothing. The first person who ends up totally nude then has to pleasure the winner any way they'd like.
BUY NOW Twister, $17.97 on Amazon.com.
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DIY Dirty Jenga
Take the classic bar game (that, yes, you can buy online for less than a fancy cocktail) and sexify it yourself. Write a dirty dare on each block (like give your partner a lap dance or go down on them while they set the game back up) and whoever tries to remove the block that knocks the tower down has to perform that dare.
BUY NOW Jenga, $5 on Amazon.com.
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Sexy Mad Libs
You know those games you played on road trips when you were a kid? Well, they can actually be used as a very sexy time passer. Whether you play in the bedroom or while driving home for the holidays together, grab a Mad Libs pad or printout and only use dirty responses for the answers.
BUY NOW Adult Mad Libs, $4.99 on Amazon.com.
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Paid By The Panty
Vibrating panties and wearable massagers are must-haves for anyone's goodie drawer, but why not take them out for a night on the town? Before going out to dinner, both you and your partner simply each slip on a pair and exchange remotes. When you're out to eat, whoever orgasms first (remember: discretion is key here!) has to pick up the tab for dinner. If you're having fun, you can go round two for dessert.
Buy Now Zalo Amorette Remote-Controlled Vibrating Egg, $79 on Zalousa.com.
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Sexopoly
By now there's a Monopoly version for basically every state and hobby, so it makes sense there'd be a sex version as well. Similar to the normal game, you move tokens and land on properties, but in this version, there's a lot more flirting and sexual trivia involved. Oh, and if you can't pay your rent, the other players might literally take the shirt off your back.
Buy Now Sexopoly Board Game, $32.99 on Lovehoney.com.
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Kama Sutra Playing Cards
If you're a fan of card games and trying to master new positions, combine your two seemingly unrelated passions with this clever card deck from Lovehoney. Each card is a different Kama Sutra position, but the deck itself is pretty versatile. Play your favorite card game and then try out the position on whatever card you land/use/draw/you know the drill.
Buy Now Lovehoney Oh! Kama Sutra Memory Match Game, $5.39 on Lovehoney.com.
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Seductive Storytelling
Whether you're with a group or just playing with your partner, you'd be surprised just how steamy a classic round of seductive storytelling can be. Set a timer for five minutes and everyone has to come up with the hottest story possible. If you're feeling really daring, read them out loud on social media and let your followers vote for their favorite...
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A Board Game for Swingers
If you're looking for a fun game to pull out when your equally adventurous friends come over, Couplicious is definitely a must-have. The game is a mix of trivia, role-play, and confessions, but in a fun way that's entirely enjoyable from start to finish.
Buy Now Couplicious Sex Game, $34.99 on Amazon.com.
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A Naughty Puzzle
Hi, hello, and welcome to the world of naughty puzzles. These bad boys aren't your grandma's jigsaws, but they're perfect for a hangover day or date night where you want to play a game but also want to keep things majorly chill.
Buy Now Men in Bed Sexy Bradley Puzzle, $8 on Lovehoney.com.
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The "Mmmms & Ahhhhs" Game
Marla Renee Stewart, sexpert for Lovers, recommends this game where you take turns touching your partner's body, with the catch that you can't touch their chest/breasts, butt, or genitals. "Make sure your partner gives feedback with only the sounds of 'mmm' and 'ahh' to express to you how they feel," Stewart explains.
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The 30 Day Position Challenge
Stewart also suggests making an agreement with your partner to have sex for 30 days in a row. For inspo, you can pull a card from a deck every day to do that position and keep it exciting.
Buy Now Month of Sex Card Game, $14.50, Loversstores.com
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The Cake Game
Use Nutella, whipped cream, and sliced strawberries to decorate your partner's body like a cake, as Katherin Winnick, Sex Coach at LetsTalkSex.net explains. Start with the bottom layer and spread Nutella on first, then spray whipped cream, and place a half strawberry on top. The fun comes when you eat it off. Try to lick your partner clean to perfection, Winnick suggests.
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Oral Dice
If you wanna play a game with sex dice without having to pay for separate sex dice, this is a good freebie from Winnick. To play, all you have to do is roll the dice (you can use more than one or two, too) to see how many minutes your partner should give you oral for. You can swap and take turns to make sure everyone gets a chance.
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Sex Toy Roulette
Winnick suggests going onto any online sex shop and just start clicking around with your eyes closed. Your partner makes sure that you're actually clicking on toys (and not just random "FAQ" or "shipping info" text). Click around until your tenth click, and buy whatever toy you land on. Test the toy with your partner as soon as you get it.
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Dirty Singing
This game, suggested by Winnick, is basically karaoke, but sexy, and with some lighthearted pressure. Sing your partner's favorite song while holding your partner's breast or penis. Every time you hesitate or forget a lyric, you must stimulate your partner. "As soon as you remember the lyrics, stop stimulating, and start singing again," Winnick suggests. If you wanna keep playing and make things even more challenging, go deeper in your archives and get out the deep cuts for rounds two and three (and so forth).
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Dirty Pictionary
"Sketch out your sex fantasy, sex position, or a sex toy you want to try," Winnick suggests, and have your partner guess what it is. If they guess correctly, you try it out. If they guess wrong, they have to go ahead and draw.
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Naked Cooking
Yes, something as simple as cooking together can also be game-ified into something sexy! Winnick says to get naked and prepare some food together, like chicken or vegetables in the oven. Set a timer, and have sex until the timer is up. As soon as it goes off, you can then get up and enjoy your meal. The fun comes in trying to time your foreplay juuuuust right to align with the timer.
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Flavored Hide and Seek
Use flavored lubricant in four spots on your body and tell your partner to find all the spots, suggests Jordan D'Nelle Jones, a women's sexual health educator and founder of the Vaginas, Vulvas and Vibrators podcast. This game allows you to control the foreplay and explore areas and erogenous zones you might otherwise not get to focus on. If you want to be even more playful, Jones says you can also tell your partner that you put it on five areas and watch as they scratch their head and lick you all over until they figure out which ones.
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Temperature Play
Experiment with both cold and hot temperatures, as sexual health expert Ashley Townes, PhD suggests. You can add some ice cubes in a bowl, put one in your mouth and let it melt a little, then kiss or tease your partner all over. Aside from teasing, Townes also says you can use ice on the penis or clitoris for stimulation. For hot play, try using a massage oil candle for a warming sensation on your partner during massage. You can also try incorporating cooling or warming lubricants for an extra touch. Townes suggests Trojan's Arouses & Releases lubricant.
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Red Light, Green Light
Townes says you can use the words "red" and "green" as directives for your partner to better explore pleasure with one another during activities like kissing, massaging, biting, and mutual masturbation or other pleasure. "The colors are used to measure one's comfort pleasure with the activity," says Townes. Saying "red" indicates you want your partner to stop, "green" indicates that they want their partner to keep going, and you can also add in "yellow" as a way to indicate you want your partner to slow down or go a bit gentler.
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Heighten Your Senses
For this you'll need a blindfold (any one will do, and you can DIY it, it doesn't have to be fancy). Townes says to blindfold your partner, and have them guess (or tell you) which of their senses will be heightened. Townes says "for smell, provide various scents and have them guess. For touch, try massagers, vibrators, or pleasure sleeves. For taste, tell your partner to open their mouth and give them various items (maybe their favorite guilty pleasures)." Adding a playlist to arouse your partner's sense of sound can also make it a full sensory experience. "Choose songs that have various tempos, different artists or vibes, and ask your partner to tell you how the song lyrics make them feel," Townes suggests.
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Try a "Yes/No/Maybe" List.
This can be a great activity to do with a partner to casually but efficiently introduce and get a feel for new kinks you each might like to experiment with. Right this way for a few popular kinks and fetishes...
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Start a Sex Fantasy Jar
You and your partner write different fun sex acts you'd like to try with each other on separate slips of paper, fold them, and put them in a jar, suggests Karen Botha, tantric sex expert and owner of Sensual Massage Romford. You can aim to fill the jar with 30 of each of your fantasies and then pull one out day-by-day, or just go with the flow and do as many as you can think of. "Don't worry if you can't think of them all at once," adds Botha. "When your juices get flowing, you'll become more creative and that jar will fill."
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"Pick Your Fate"
Grab two bowls, 20 small foldable slips of paper, pen, and dice. You each write down ten things (and they don't necessarily have to be sex things either) you want to do to your partner, fold them, and put them in the jar, suggests Alex Miller, sexologist at Orchid Toys. You then throw the dice and whoever gets the bigger number, wins. The "loser" has to pick a paper from their fate bowl and do whatever is written on the paper, anything from oral sex to doing the dishes. "If you think doing the dishes is a mood killer," Miller adds, "just wait for the loser's revenge." What comes around, goes around, bb!
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Blindfolded Poker
This game, also suggested by Miller, combines strip poker and truth or dare. You'll need a set of poker cards and maybe a pen and paper to write your bets down on. To play, pick whatever style of poker you like, but none of the players can look at their cards—the idea is to bet without seeing them. Instead of betting with money, you bet with actions, Miller explains. "For example, 'I see your oil-massage, and I raise you with a hand job.'" she adds. "Once betting is over, players flip over their cards and whoever loses has to do all the things that have been said."
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Read Sexy Stories to Each Other
Rachel Klechevsky, a resident sex therapist for sexual wellness and discovery app Eforia, suggests reading erotic stories or novels to each other. You and your partner can take turns reading sexy scenes to one another in bed. Whether it gets your juices flowing right then and there or you just pick up some hot tips for a later date, you'll both broaden your horizons in terms of new sexy acts.
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Download the Eforia App
Have you and your partner download the free Eforia app to further explore your fantasies, discover new kinks, and more, suggests Klechevsky. You can go through different role-playing scenarios on the app and then try to recreate them IRL with your partner. It's like a "Choose Your Own Adventure" for your relationship.
Download Eforia App, App Store
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"Find the Honey"
Get a blindfold (a scarf or a tie will work here) for your partner, dip your finger in some honey and dab it on your body in a sexy, unexpected place, suggests Heather Claus, owner of DatingKinky.com, a kinky dating and education site. Your partner has to explore your body with their mouth looking for the (literal) sweet spot. If you wanna up the difficulty, you can set a timer, too. You can take turns trading off or taking timed turns with the winner winning best two out of three, or whatever rules you decide.
It's not only a fun, cheap, game (that doesn't require buying different flavored lubes like number 12), but it can also last for hours (if you're up for the challenge), Claus adds. As for where to hide the honey, Claus recommends your earlobe, between your (clean) toes, behind your knee, or the small of your back.
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Drawing on Each Other's Bodies
Obvi skip the permanent markers, but use another body-safe marker or even massage candles to write, draw, and explore on your partner's bodies, suggests John C. Luna, sex educator and podcaster at Sex Positive Me.
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The "May I?" Game
If you think consent isn't sexy, this game will change your mind. Slow down and explore each other's bodies while asking "May I?" before every touch. Be flirty or bratty to spice things up, Luna suggests.
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